It can often be difficult to know the correct etiquette relating to who should pay for what when it comes to your big day. While modern weddings frequently bend the rules, here's the official lowdown on traditional etiquette!
Bride:
* Wedding ring for the Groom
* Gifts for the Attendants
* Accommodation for out-of-town Attendants
* Wedding gift for the Groom
* Personal Lingerie
* Bridesmaids luncheon
The Groom:
* The Bride's rings including the Engagement ring
* The honeymoon
* Wedding gift for the bride
* The marriage license
* The Groomsmen gifts
* Accommodation for out-of-town groom's men
* Brides bouquet
* Corsages for mothers
* Boutonnieres for men in wedding party
* The gloves, ties and accessories for the men in the wedding party
* Fee for clergyperson or judge
The Groom's Family:
* Clothing for the Wedding
* Travel and lodging expenses
* Rehearsal dinner
* Wedding gift for the newlyweds
* Getting gifts to the newlyweds home
The Bride's Family:
* The Engagement Party and announcement
* All facets of the reception.
* Bride's attire
* Invitations, announcements, thank you notes
* Decorating costs
* Photographer/Videographer
* Ceremony costs
* Bridesmaids, flower girl, ring bearer flowers and accessories
* Transportation for bridal party on Wedding day from ceremony to reception.
* All gratuities for all services: parking, security
* Their own attire
* Their own travel arrangements to island
The Attendants:
* Their Wedding clothes
* Travel expenses
* Wedding gift for newlyweds
Maid of Honour
* Wedding shower
* Hen Night
Best Man
* Stag Night
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
Who Pays for What?
Choosing a Wedding Photographer
Choosing a photographer for your big day is a daunting task. There are so many out there, how do you know one is better than another. Here are some tips in helping you to decide:
1. Choose a photographer that suits your style. Photographers will either shoot formal wedding frames, or be more like photojournalists, shooting as the event happens, or some photographers will do a mixture of both. Choose a photographer that suits your style.
2. Every photographer has a portfolio of work. Ask to see it. Look out for crisp images, good lighting, well composed foregrounds and backgrounds, ask yourself wether the photography your viewing expresses any emotion.
3. Meet with your photographer choices and assess wether there is any common ground there. It is essential that you understand each other and can work together throughout the process as the character of the photographer will play an important part in the type of photo�s you end up with.
4. Ask technical questions: does he/she shoot digital photography? Does he/she shoot medium format (for poster sized prints) as well as 35mm? Will you get a CD of all photography, or an album?
5. As for References and check them out. Ask the Referees wether the photographer was punctual, friendly, assertive, worthy of recommendation?
6. Check out the small print. Large studios will often hike up the price of an estimate by sending along associates or charging you for travel time to your wedding etc. Make sure you know what your getting.
7. Make sure that you own all the rights to your wedding photography, that way there will be not chance that your photography ends up in a magazine to publicize the photographer!
The photo�s that you take away from your wedding are quite often the only lasting impression you will have of your special day. With this in mind it makes sense to plan the photographs that you would like to see in the future and to give this list to your photographer before your ceremony.
Also ask your photographer to shoot in both black and white and colour so that you can benefit from both mediums.
Once you�ve made your choice, don�t second guess. Consider it one less thing to have to think about!
Island Wedding Planning
There is no reason why a wedding planned in an exotic location should compromise your dreams in any way. By considering the following pointers and keeping abreast of all of your choices, your wedding has the potential to be a unique expression of yourself and a honeymoon all rolled into one.
Choosing your Destination
* Check out local marriage guidelines � some destinations require you to be in the country for a �waiting period� before your wedding day. If this doesn�t suit your schedule you might want to choose another location.
* Weather � some regions are prone to hurricanes during specific times of the year. Although these times are considered �off season� and therefore cheaper, they also pose risks to your day.
* Check into the wedding services available in the area. The more remote your location the less services will be on offer, including tourism type activities. This might affect your guests decision to attend the wedding
* Cut Costs for you and your guests by booking a destination wedding in off season times. For the Caribbean this is between May and November.
The Details
Are you happy handling all the details of your wedding yourself or would you rather have the support of an onsite wedding planner? Planners are in touch with local service vendors and often have the local knowledge that can save you money and time. Once you have decided on your location, its time to decide if you want to enlist a wedding planner 'on the ground' to help with your plans.
To begin, use an online resource such as http://www.islandbrides.com to get an initial list of all the planners in your chosen wedding destination. Contact them all initially by email to see who gets back to you promptly and efficiently. Once you've narrowed down the list to 2 or 3 possible, keep up an email dialogue with them so you can find out which of them wants to plan your wedding, your way, and which are only interested in selling you their own fixed packages.
Once you have found the planner you feel most comfortable with, make sure that you have spoken to each other a few times, on the phone, before you arrive in your location. Make sure they know what you want for your wedding, and have given you a detailed quote for their services, broken down so you can see exactly what you are getting. Also ask the obvious questions about experience, packages and how she/he charges for their services.
It may seem like a lot of work, but choosing your wedding planner can make or break your day, so putting him or her through their paces will ensure you are happy with your choice, and both you and the planner are on the same page.
The Cake, The Photographer, The Flowers, The Beautician, Musicians etc.
If you have decided to enlist a wedding planner, he or she will be able to recommend florists, bakers, and stylists in the area. Don't be afraid to ask to see photos of the work of these people - if they're not willing to provide them, choose someone else.
If you are doing your own planning, most wedding vendors have websites nowadays, and destination wedding websites such as http://www.islandbrides.com/ can put you directly in touch with everyone you will need for your wedding plans.
Just as with choosing your wedding planner, don't just choose one from the list. Start by contacting them all, and then narrow your list of options down by speaking regularly to them. You can tell a lot from a few e-mails back and forth, and you have the chance to make sure you are getting exactly what you want out of your package, and review their work online.
Beach Wedding Themes
Wherever you decide to hold your Island wedding you�ll want to come up with a unique and individual theme for your wedding that says something about who you are as a couple.
When deciding upon a theme, keep these theme ideas in mind for a Caribbean accent to add to your wedding:
Ocean
With turquoise blue waters all around the islands of the Caribbean what could be more fitting than having an ocean theme to your wedding. Here are some suggestions to get you started:
* Add swags of turquoise tulle to your head table
* Decorate your bridal arch in ocean coloured ribbons
* Offer guests ocean inspired favours wrapped up in blue tulle
* Decorate tables with glass bowls with sea water arrangements inside them
* Use fish inspired logos for invitations, save a date cards and thank you notes
* Consider a nautical touch with the use of ropes to make candle arrangements for table centrepieces
Tropical
The tropical foliage of the Caribbean can provide a lush and colourful backdrop to your wedding.
* Use Bougainvillea to decorate arches, and the head table
* Buy tropical flowers by the stem from local florists to make your own table arrangements based in vases weighted with sand
* Incorporate palms into your wedding decor
* Consider having a tiki hut erected as an outside bar
* Offer tropical drinks after your ceremony
* Offer tropical fruits in your desert cart
* Serve a tropical fruit Caribbean wedding cake
* Incorporate seafood items typical in The Caribbean to your menu ie. Conch salad, grouper, lobster
Beach
The Beach can provide a great theme to your wedding and a million ideas for d�cor:
* Have a conch shell aisle in the sand
* Use tiki lights to light pathways in evening receptions
* Incorporate the beach into invitations using shells, message in a bottle, or scrolled invites � see �Favours� feature
* Have an ice sculpture on your buffet table to house shrimp or salad in the shape of a shell or a dolphin
Nature
The tropical animal kingdom can provide an eco sensitive slant to your wedding, consider the following:
* Use animal logo�s on all wedding stationary: parrots, iguanas, dolphins
* Use local natural landmarks as a focal point of your wedding ie. Volcano sites in Montserrat, jungle, or beach
Musical
Soca, Calypso, Reggae, Steel Drum Bands are all music styles that are intrinsically tied to the Caribbean...why not incorporate music from your locale into your wedding.
Save The Date Cards
Save The Date Cards are pretty much a �must� for a Destination Wedding. They announce your big day in advance of formal invitations so that guests can have adequate time to make the necessary travel preparations for your beach wedding.
Here are some things to keep in mind when putting together your Save a Date Cards:
* Send out Save The Date Cards 4 to 6 months prior to your wedding
* Don�t get into too much detail about the reception, the rehearsal dinner etc, this should just be an - announcement about the Date, not the details.
* Include travel and area information ie. Resorts, flights, phone numbers, group booking plans etc.
* Reply cards are not necessary as you are not trying to illicit a response.
* Do not send your registry information with the Save The Date Card.
* Include details of your wedding website if you plan to post additional updates and information there.
Choosing the Format
Save The Date Cards are traditionally more casual than formal invites....so this could be your opportunity to add your own personal style to your wedding, or to imbibe a bit of the island-style into it:
Curl your Save The Date Card into a straw tote, or a unique sea shell, or a small bottle or send them out as a Pirate scroll with a map to the Treasure � your tropical beach wedding! If you find that you have a lot of important information, such as hotel and travel agent phone numbers to include, why not look into having your cards printed as fridge magnets, this way, the information can be kept close at hand by your guests, and the magnets provide a great lasting memory of your island event!
The Wedding Planner
Considering that the average wedding takes between 200 and 300 hours to plan its no surprise that brides are using the services of Wedding Coordinators more and more these days. When it comes to Destination Weddings the services of a local expert can save you countless wasted hours and dollars as well as acting as your eyes, ears and go between on the day.
But when it comes to hiring the services of Wedding Coordinators, what exactly are you letting yourself in for? is it truly possible to trust the services of a third party when it comes to the detailed planning of the most important day of your life? And what are the loop holes and problems that folks experience? We are here to forewarn you of the problems whilst also helping you to make the most of your wedding planner and to enjoy the experience from the start.
Word of Mouth
Once your chosen your island destination to get married, join local wedding message boards to find out which planners have a good reputation. Word of mouth is the only recommendation when it comes to �real� details.
Talk to prospective planners on the phone
Email is great, its inexpensive and it allows you to ask all sorts of questions that you might feel awkward asking in person, however, there is nothing like face to face contact, or voice interaction to get a feel for a person and to gauge wether you will be able to work together. We advise that you call your shortlist of wedding planners and feel out the best.
Be specific about pricing and choices
Once you�ve shortlisted your choices, be specific about what you want for your wedding and get written quotes. Even though these might be ball park figures at this stage it will help you to analyze the virtues of each planner before making a final decision
Get written contracts
So you�ve now chosen the wedding planner you want to work with...make sure you nail down the contract and leave nothing open to speculation. if there is a cake included in your package, how big is the cake, how many guests will it feed, what is the frosting...these are the types of details that you need to iron out from the start.
Fees
Coordinators usually charge one of three ways:
* by the hour - $50 and up
* by a percentage of total wedding costs - 10 - 15% of overall wedding budget
* by a flat fee - ie. $1500 plus 15% of vendor services
* by fee based upon number of guests
* by fee based upon package or work required
Check on the planners relationship with vendors
Some wedding planners get kick back commissions from vendors on services they sign up, this can sway their advice on the use of vendors in certain categories and you might not be getting what YOU want, but what the planner is getting the best deal for themselves on.
How long will the planner be available on the day?
You need to know if your planner will be there to coordinate photographs, cake cutting, the first dances etc. If he/she will only be around on your day for a specific amount of time, specify when and to.
Make sure you have undivided attention
The only way to do this is to ensure that your planner has only ONE booking on the day of your wedding.
Have a back up plan
Ask your coordinator what happens in the event that he/she is sick on your wedding day?
Hire an �internet friendly� coordinator
Plan to stay in touch with your coordinator via email and check that they are computer literate, check emails daily. Some Caribbean countries are internet challenged and it would be good to discuss this at the outset so as not to get frustrated between emails.
Wedding Hairstyles
When thinking about your wedding hairstyles the key is to prepare and plan well ahead. There's nothing like a hair disaster to send you into a tail spin on your wedding day. Here's some of our suggestions for getting your hair right at your beach wedding:
Plan ahead
Do you research, tear photo's out of magazines and start to discuss your wedding hairstyle preferences with your hairdresser as much as a year ahead of time. She can guide you with colour treatments, cuts and questions about lengths that will have you looking fab on your day.
Do a practice run
Whatever style you decide to have on your day, definitely do a practice run at home, before you leave for your destination wedding. Gauge wether your up-do will make it through the winds of Aruba or wether your cascading "down" do will remain cascading and not a frizz up in humid climates. Also gauge wether the do you choose is really you.
Match your dress, don't drown it!
As with any other wedding, you will want to make sure that your beach wedding dress matches the hairstyle that you want...and despite weather considerations you should be able to have all of the same choices available to you as a bride at home would. Try your wedding dress on with your practice run hair-do and see wether there is a match or wether your hair is competing for attention.
Bias cut slip dresses might suit an "up/down" look with fresh flowers as an accessory, whereas a traditional off the shoulder gown might suit an up do, or even a veil.
Shine On
Use shining serum in your hair to give it that extra shine for your big day.
Up Do's
If you've resigned yourself to an up do for your beach wedding and succumbed to the idea that humid weather will frizz anything else, then these styles might be for you:
* Ballerina Bun - a ponytail woven around itself into a tight bun
* A chignon - a dramatic bun at the base of the head.
French Braid - a closely women, three stranded braid running the length of the head and your hair. Classic up do - created by piling curled hair on top of your head and pining in place
Veils
Chances are that our island wedding will be conducted out doors, on a beach, in tropical gardens or by a picturesque colonial land monument and so you will have to consider the management of a veil well in advance. Perhaps a long cathedral veil won't work in tropical gardens and a puffy waist length veil might blow above your face during the ceremony. Just bare in mind that your ceremony location should play a part in the veil you choose to wear.
Bare in mind also that a veil can dramatically alter your silhouette...a short waisted bride should not wear a veil that stops at the waist, therefore accentuating the waste line and a petite bride might steer away from shorter veils that are top heavy and keep the concentration on the top half of the body. Generally speaking taller brides can carry a more substantial and longer veil.
Headpieces and Accessories
Because Destination Brides tend to be a bit more casual and non traditional, many are opting to toss the idea of the traditional veil in preference for an attractive tiara, wreath, barrette or back piece.
Another idea is to make use of the beautiful tropical flowers at your disposal and wear fresh flowers in your hair on your day. Just make sure that if you plan to remove your accessories during your reception, your hairstylist has shown your maid or honour how to remove it.
Kids & Weddings
Kids at weddings has been a huge “no no” during the past ten years, however, the trend through 2005 has been to invite as many children to your wedding as your family includes.
To combat the problems of tiny tot boredom during the reception and to allow parents to totally enjoy your shindig here are a few suggestions to keep the young ones occupied and happy:
* Hire a babysitter - most hotels have a baby sitting service or a kids club and you could probably pay an extra fee to have them entertain and supervise the little ones during your reception fiesta.
* Seat children together at a special “kids table”- cover the tables with butchers paper and throw crayons in the middle.
* Give each child an activity pack including games and puzzles, bubbles, crayons, colouring books
* Consider hiring magic makers, clowns or puppet shows
* Serve a kids meal consisting of chicken mcnuggets, pizza’s, cheesy potato’s, pasta, fish fingers etc.
* Give children jobs at the reception ie. getting messages in the Guest Book, passing around favors, handing out disposable camera’s,
* Have a special cinema corner set up for young ones, with comfy pillows, popcorn and juice showing tiny-tot favourites: Finding Nemo, Shrek, The Lion King etc.
It may seem like a lot of additional effort, but this day is one to remember for the rest of your life, and if having children at the wedding means you can ensure your closest friends and family can be there also, its well worth it!
A Unique Wedding
By Charlene McNeill
When most people think of destination weddings, they think of white sandy beaches and flower covered gazebos. However, for those brides who wish to break away from the typical beach wedding yet still have a tropical wedding, there is a surprisingly large range of alternative wedding venues available in the Caribbean. Here are some ideas for unusual venues, ranging from the simple and romantic to the down right fun.
Waterfalls
For those brides who want a breathtaking location for their wedding ceremony, what could provide a more spectacular backdrop than a beautiful waterfall? There is no shortage of amazing falls in the Caribbean, with some of the best being incorporated into botanical gardens and National Parks in Grenada, St Lucia and Jamaica. Many of the National Parks and botanical gardens welcome wedding parties, and offer packages to suit every budget. See the following websites for more information:
* Jamaica Waterfall Weddings
* Spectacular Waterfalls in Grenada
* Waterfalls of St Lucia
Barbados Orchid World
The Barbados Orchid World - in the heart of Barbadian countryside � has its own wedding gazebo located on a lawn surrounded by thousands of orchids and beautiful scenery. The centre has a bar and restaurant in which guests can be entertained, and holds breathtaking views over the whole island.
Ancient Buildings
For a ceremony steeped in Caribbean heritage, island brides can choose to get married at any one of the many historical sites dotted around the islands. Try the ancient sugar mills in St Lucia, St Kitts and US Virgin Islands or the gunblazing forts in The Bahamas or San Juan (Puerto Rico).
Alternately you could research the many large plantation houses that offer that true Colonial feel, ie. Half Moon Bay in Jamaica, Balenbouche Estate in St Lucia or bayside ruins like the 14th Century French Cloisters originally built by Augustine Monks and reassembled in The Bahamas in the 1960�s.
Local hotels specialize in arranging ceremonies at these historic ruins and can guarantee a seamless day with tons of smashing photo�s for the future.
Caribbean Church Wedding � Tradition with a Twist
Brides searching for a religious ceremony will be pleased to know that many religious denominations offer Church services in the Caribbean. Catholic churches date back to the late 15th Century and many have beautiful and well developed tropical gardens for stunning photography.
For those of the Jewish faith the Mikve Israel Synagogue in Curacao provides a unique and deeply spiritual option for a religious ceremony. The oldest synagogue in continuous use in the Americas, Mikve Israel was founded in 1732 by Sephardic Jews fleeing persecution in Portugal and Spain. The floor is still covered in white sand just as in the Old World where Jews prayed on sand to avoid being heard in the temples.
Regulations regarding ceremonies and documents differ from one denomination to another, so island brides should check with tourism boards for contact details of local clergymen.
Submarine Nuptials
Adventurous brides and grooms can tie the knot at 130 feet below seal level in a truly unforgettable ceremony with Atlantis Submarines who run subs from Aruba, Barbados, Cozumel, Curacao, Grand Cayman, St John, St Martin and St Thomas.
Private Charter Boats
Brides who love the turquoise sea of the Caribbean but prefer to stay dry may splash out on a luxury wedding aboard a privately chartered boat. Couples can find many different packages available to them on Grand Cayman, St Croix and in The Bahamas � from champagne breakfast and snorkeling packages to sunset weddings or fully blown all-day affairs.
Big Beard's Adventures in St Croix offer packages from $250 for the ceremony.
Private Villas
Land lovers who prefer to stay on an island for their ceremony can also go for the height of luxury � away from hotel package deals � and rent a private villa or estate house. Many of the large villas and houses available for rental throughout the Caribbean offer special and tailor-made services to wedding parties, and often have their own staff to cater for guests, including personal wedding planners. Villa Castellamonte in the Dominican Republic offers the most luxurious setting imaginable for weddings, with seven king-sized suites and an astounding entrance hall.
With so much variety on offer to couples, it is no wonder that the Caribbean is one of the world�s top wedding destiantions.
Wedding Weight Woes
What bride doesn�t want to look her best on her wedding day?
This is possibly the most important day of your life, the day that you will constantly look back on in memories and in photo�s and so its no surprise that most brides hit the gym and the diets in the months leading up to the day.
For Destination Brides, its no different, but add to the pressures of the big Wedding Dress Debut, the fact that you�ll probably be spending every day in a bikini before and after your wedding, it wouldn�t hurt to adopt some of the tips below and shape up for you big day.
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Start your planning early and don�t leave it until the last minute.
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Keep a food diary and log every, single morsel that enters your mouth. You�ll be amazed at how much you haven�t considered before and will start to cut down, so you don�t have to �write down�.
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Set long terms goals, wether it be 10 or 50 pounds before the wedding or firmer arms for a strapless dress and then break the long terms goal down into mini steps ie. 2 pounds in one month, one inch off bicep etc. Reward yourself at each mini-step achievement point with a massage, a pedicure, a pair of skinny jeans � whatever rocks your boat!
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For healthy weight loss aim to lose no more than two pounds per week � studies have shown that crash diets do make you lose the weight, but what you�ve lost is mainly water and lean muscle, meaning that you tend to gain the weight more quickly afterwards.
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Build muscle and burn calories. A body made of muscle will burn more calories than a body made up of fat.
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Eat smaller, healthier amounts, more frequently.
Aim to eat, on average, 4-5 times per day. Meals don�t have to be huge and can consist of � a banana, an apple, cottage cheese on crackers, or fish and salads. This will in turn increase your metabolic rate as your body sees you fuelling it, and not starving it of calories. A body that is starved, tends to slow down a metabolic rate in order to make the most use of calories it is fed.
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Eat breakfast and kick start your metabolism into working well throughout the day.
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Exercise regularly at least three times a week, for 20 minutes of cardio workout and 15 minutes of weight bearing exercise at the very least. Change your routine regularly to keep it fun and challenging.
With a bit of planning, a little hard work, and a dash of discipline, you'll be looking your best, feeling your best, and without doubt, the well deserved centre of attention on your wedding day.
A Free DR Wedding - Beach Wedding Article
The Dominican Republic has been increasing in popularity over the last decade and now holds the acclaimed title of hosting the highest number of visitors in the entire Caribbean annually.
The Dominican Republic is an environmental wonderland with 32% of its land mass being environmentally protected, 17 national parks and a high regard for the protection of the Silver Banks, the breeding grounds of humpback whales. Its no wonder that its an adventure sports fan�s mecca. White water river rafting, canyoning, windsurfing, trekking and mountain biking in the Caribbean�s highest mountain range are just a few reasons why.
In recent years the Dominican republic has jumped onto the band wagon of Destination Weddings and now offers a plethera of hotels with free wedding packages. Most require a minimum stay, or a certain number of room bookings, in order to get the Free deal, but hey, something is better than nothing right?
Here are a few of the best deals we found:
Fun Royale Beach Resort
The complimentary package includes:
* Room upgrade
* Judge's fee
* Wedding Certificate
* Translation services
* Wedding Cake
* Hairdresser for the Bride
* Champagne toast
* Canap�s
* Waiter service during ceremony
* Special personalized table d'h�te menu
* Bridal bouquet of fresh flowers
* Fresh flowers on the judge's table
* 3 button hole corsage of fresh flowers
* Live local music
* Horse and carriage for newlyweds
* Sparkling wine in room ( day after )
Note: Only available with reservations of 14 or more invited guests. Contact Fun Royale Beach Resort
Melia Caribe Tropical
Complimentary package includes:
* Notary service, marriage license and legalization of document
* Certified copy of marriage license
* Personal In-house Wedding Specialist
* Bottle of wine in room upon arrival
* Alternative locations for the wedding ceremony (subject to government restrictions)
* Private Wedding Couple dinner under the moon & the stars the night before the wedding. Select from two special areas throughout the property
* Best man, maid of honor and witnesses made available if needed
* Bouquet of flowers for the bride & boutonni�re for the groom
* CD or taped music during the ceremony
* Two bottles of sparkling wine for the wedding toast
* Wedding cake for up to 15 persons
* Guaranteed late check-out up to 3pm
Note: To be eligible for the Melia Free Wedding Package the couple, & their guests, must book a minimum of 25 room nights at double adult occupancy in second (or higher) category rooms/suites. Sol Melia will cover up to $ 300USD in legal fees; remaining fees are to be paid locally with our In-House Wedding Specialist in our Melia resort.
Contact Melia Caribe Tropical
Paradisus Punta Cana
* Complimentary package includes the following:
* Notary service, marriage license and legalization of document
* Certified copy of marriage license
* Personal in-house Wedding Coordinator
* Fruit basket and bottle of wine in suite upon arrival
* Private Wedding Couple dinner under the moon and stars the night before the wedding.
* Select from three special areas throughout the property.
* Bouquet of flowers for the bride and boutonniere for the groom
* Two bottles of French champagne for the wedding toast
* Wedding cake for up to 25 persons
* Basic photography package
* Breakfast in the room the day after the wedding
* His & Her gift: $100 value
* Guaranteed late check-out up to 4pm or 6pm
* Plate of fruits in room ( day after )
* Breakfast in bed ( the morning after )
* Reservation in specialty restaurant on wedding day ( all - inclusive guests only )
Note: To be eligible for the Paradisus Free Wedding Package the couple must book a minimum of 5 room nights at double adult occupancy in a third (or higher) category suite. Sol Melia will cover up to $ 400USD in legal fees; remaining fees are to be paid locally with our In-House Wedding Specialist in our Paradisus resort.
Contact Paradisus Punta Cana
SUNSCAPE Casa Del Mar - Playa Bayahibe
Complimentary package includes
* Service of Judge
* Wedding coordinator
* Preferential location of the room in the category reserved
* Use of the wedding gazebo
* Wedding cake (1 level)
* One bottle of sparkling wine
* Special turn down service
* VIP amenities in the bathroom
* Late checkout for the bride and groom (based on availability)
Note: Reservation of a Honeymoon Deluxe Room category or higher for a minimum 7 nights stay is required for this complimentary package. Restrictions / exclusions: subject to availability. Occupancy for double only.
Contact Sunscape Casa Del Mar
Contact Sunscape The Beach Punta Cana
GRAND Flamenco Punta Cana
* Complimentary package includes the following:
* Wedding coordinator service
* Ceremony & Judge services
* Bridal bouquet
* Groom boutonniere
* Domestic Champagne Toast during the ceremony (for up to 20 people)
* Wedding cake enough for up to 20people
* Photographer & 10 photographs (no negatives)
* Decoration of the ceremony area (made on balloons and flowers)
* Nuptial gala dinner at a la carte restaurant including local drinks with special menu (for up to 20 people)
* Fruit basket in the room upon arrival for couple
* Witnesses if required can be afforded by the hotel
* Nuptial breakfast in the room for couple
* Music with a guitar duo
Note: Only available FREE when booking a minimum of 10 rooms in the Royal Club for a minimum of four nights,
The Wedding Dress
If you're planning a beach wedding there are no rules that state that you have to compromise your wedding dress preference. If you want a classically styled, full dress then you should have one...however there might be some considerations to keep in mind. Alternatively you might opt for something more casual and practical.
We've tried to do some thinking for you, so consider these points whichever direction you head in:
* If you want the classic Wedding Dress think about the keeping the material of the dress to a lightweight fabric.
* Time your wedding to be in a cooler part of the year and time of day.
* Tulle and organza layered in ocean colours could be a fabulous and lightweight, compliment to turquoise oceans that surround your Caribbean beach wedding
* A slip dress, as the one worn by Cindy Crawford in her Bahamas wedding, offers a more casual option and allows you to dip your toes in the ocean after the ceremony with no fear of ruining your dress
* A bias cut, floor length satin or silk dress topped with a short veil or flower garland adds evening elegance to a sunset wedding
* For long wedding dresses keep in mind that your wedding dress length should reflect the fact that you might be bare foot throughout the ceremony
* For a truly casual beach look there are a variety of beach sarongs and matching tops available online. Dress up this look with barefoot "jewellery" shoes, flowers in your hair, or a flower tiara
* Ask your wedding planner to provide a red carpet to your faux alter on the beach and avoid getting your heels stuck in the sand, alternately, go barefoot for that true beach wedding feel!
And finally, don't forget about what you'll be wearing under your dress! Why not check out these Wedding Day Essentials at Bare Necessities for that finishing touch.
Beach Wedding Favors
Island style wedding favors can give your guests a taste of the Caribbean whilst also adding style and panache to your Destination Wedding. Here are some suggestions for favors that won't hurt your budget too much:
* Flip Flops in wedding colours
* Inscribed beach towels
* Personalized fans or parasols
* Seashell xmas decorations
* Miniature tote bags holding sunscreen, bug repellent, lip lotion and after sun gel
* Local cookbooks
* CD of Calypso/Reggae/Soca music
* Miniature sand buckets with candles inside
* Caribbean rum cakes
* Caribbean rum bottle - miniature
* Caribbean jams and jellies
* Caribbean hot pepper sauce - made locally and tied up in Batik fabric
* Caribbean coffee
* Pina Colada/Margarita mix
* Personalised luggage tags
* Natural Sponges
* Shell encrusted candles
* Shell soaps
Don't forget to check out other options such as Personalized Wedding Gifts from
2007 Wedding Favors
As big, bold and brash as weddings are for 2007, the buzz around wedding gifts seems to be towards the simpler, more intimate gifts and the message is clear: personalize, personalize, personalize!
Brides are replacing old gift favourites: earrings, jewellery boxes, and necklaces with casual keepsakes like monogrammed pajama sets, CD's of music you have shared over the years or more formally a silver plated photo album filled with 'best friend' photos and engraved with a personal message on the front.
Even grooms are opting for more intimate gift choices this year over long standing classics like hip flasks, cufflinks, and money clips. The trend appears to be in matching the interests of groomsmen with the gift choice: monogrammed golf towels or engraved golf tools for the golfing guy; personlized coasters or pub signs for the boozer; or caricature drawings of all of your pals together.
Almost anything that brings a tear to the eye is accepted and treasured in the gift arena for weddings, especially when it comes to Mothers of the Bride. Brides are rolling out the emotional barrel when it comes to gifts for Mom by giving heart felt letters folded into hollow, heart shaped pendants with special messages engraved on the inside. Equally soppy is the idea to take Mom on a special trip to celebrate old times and places you've shared together in the past or to create a compact DVD of family video's collected through the years.
If all this sentiment has you feeling queasy then revel in the fabulously frivolous array of fun beach-favours on the market today, from monogrammed flip fops, beach totes and toiletry bags, to chocolate starfish, conch shell candles, and seashell scented bath soaps. Whatever your destination wedding theme is, there's a favor to match it.
For some great ideas, check out some of our partners for personalized wedding favours and gifts:
2007 Wedding Trends
The word for this years wedding season is definitely 'GLAMOROUS"! Big, showy weddings that incorporate colour, glitz and all things bright and beautiful are in for 2007.
Moving on from last years popular colour choices of chocolate brown and powder blue, this year has exploded into tropical oranges and vibrant accents in equally fruity colours. Look out bashful brides, these sizzling shades are being embellished with jewels, rhinestones and sequins to keep the focus strictly on you, on your big day to shine, shine, shine.
Patterns and designs are also abound with floral bridesmaid dresses, polka dot cakes, geometric table runners and embroidered chair covers to add richness to the overall wedding decor.
The environment has taken centre stage this year with Earth Hour, and global warming issues making headlines and many brides are showing their support by incorporating recyclable invites, organic foods, or pesticide free flowers into their big day. Also appealing is a request for charitable donations made to environmental organizations in lieu of wedding presents.
In tune with the more 'organic' wedding is the idea of ethnic entertainment in the form of mariachi bands, or steel drum troupes, accompanies by matching buffet style reception feasts.
If all of this has you feeling dizzy, relax, there is a return to square tables this year, which bring a certain balance to most reception, square-shaped, rooms and offer your guests more chance to chat with all of their table guests. If wedding gifts have you in a tiz think simple and personal for bridesmaid or groomsmen gifts - brightly coloured jelly beans wrapped up in shimmering- sequined silk headscarfs, a CD of your mariachi band, a monogrammed beach towel or a silver toe ring to remind them of your destination wedding location would be perfecto.
For some more ideas on favours for your guests and gifts for the wedding party, we recommend stopping by the links below:
Destination Weddings - Are They For You?
by Paris Permenter and John Bigley
Would you like to get married on your honeymoon? Destination weddings are becoming more and more popular with couples who are eager to skip the fuss of a traditional wedding and jump right into the fun. Around the world, you'll find hotels and resorts that offer on-site help to plan your wedding, from details like the wedding license to extras such as music and photos. Whether the special day involves just the two of you or whether you'll be inviting friends and relatives to join in the occasion, a destination wedding can be a way to create wonderful memories.
But, first, the down side. Destination weddings aren't for everyone. If you're in love with the idea of a large wedding with all your friends and family, skip this idea. Even with a year of planning, it's just about impossible to get everyone's schedules coordinated for this kind of event.
But many couples are saying "I do" to the idea of destination weddings not only as a way to make the occasion more special, but also as a means of simplifying the whole process. "Just say the word, and we'll take care of everything," explains Ava Burke-Thompson, Director of Guest Services at the Sheraton Grand Resort Paradise Island, Bahamas. "We can arrange for the marriage license; minister, priest or rabbi; the florist and the photographer; the wedding cake and champagne; and the rehearsal dinner and wedding reception."
At resorts like the Sheraton Grand, on site wedding coordinators take care of every last detail, some with just a one day notice. "We do it all the time," says Burke-Thompson. "It's now legally possible to get married in the Bahamas with 24 hours' notice."
POPULARITY OF DESTINATION WEDDINGS
Destination weddings have caught on for several reasons. According to hotels and resorts around the world, they're especially popular with:
* couples on a budget who don't want the expense of an elaborate wedding.
* couples who don't want the fuss of a wedding and all that goes with it at home.
* couples on their second marriage looking for something a little different.
* those on their second marriage who'll need to bring along children on the honeymoon. The children's programs at many resorts offer privacy for the couple and a chance to enjoy a vacation with their new family.
* couples who are bringing a small wedding party. Sometimes the bride and groom stay at one resort and the wedding party at a neighboring resort, giving everyone privacy.
* couples who are bringing a sizable wedding party and would like to take over a resort.
Many small resorts like Florida's Little Palm Island offer groups the option of taking over the entire property. This type of stay must be arranged far in advance. The wedding party has the run of the resort for their stay, with plenty of room to party and play. "Little Palm Island is a really private, secluded getaway for wedding groups," explains Susan Belanski, Director of Sales. "We close off the entire island." When wedding parties take over an entire property like Little Palm Island, regular house rules, such as no guests under age 16, are suspended so wedding parties can invite anyone of their choice.
DETAILS, DETAILS
Before you say "I do," plan to do a little research into the "do"s --and "don't"s -- of the local marriage laws. Many countries have loosened their marriage regulations, making it easier for foreigners to tie the knot. Even so, you'll need to do some research.
"The reason some couples have problems with their overseas wedding is that they are unfamiliar with the marriage laws, rules and regulations of where they want to be wed," explains Ruth Keusch, co-owner of Ottley's Plantation Inn, located in Caribbean federation of St. Kitts and Nevis. In researching your destination wedding, Keusch recommends that couples make sure they learn:
* if their home country will recognize a wedding in the designated country as valid.
* the minimum residency period before the marriage can be performed.
* what paperwork you'll need to bring from your hometown house of worship if you're planning a religious ceremony
* what proof is required if you're divorced or widowed
* if blood tests are required and, if so, if you can bring them from your home doctor or if must they be performed locally
* if there will be English-speaking staff members available to assist you
* costs and fees
* typical weather during the month of your wedding
* special hotel rates for members of the wedding party
* what previous experience the hotel or resort has in planning foreign weddings
Destination weddings can also lead to another joyous celebration: destination anniversaries. Couples who wed on their honeymoon can revisit the very spot where they married and share the memories of that occasion.
Photo courtesy Sheraton Grand Paradise Island
Husband and wife team Paris Permenter and John Bigley have authored over 20 guidebooks and also edit the FREE Lovetripper.com, a romantic travel magazine featuring worldwide destinations.
Caribbean Getaways - When to Go?
by Paris Permenter and John Bigley
Considering a romantic getaway, honeymoon or destination wedding in the Caribbean? After selecting your island, the question most on your mind is when to travel.
PRICE
The Caribbean offers plenty of fun in the sun year around, with very little difference in temperature from month to month. The time of year you travel may have more to do with your budget than with the weather. Prices can vary as much as 40 percent between high and low season.
High season usually runs from December 15 through April 15. During this time, prices peak and rooms can be difficult to reserve (especially during the holiday season). Prices soar during Christmas week. After the holidays, package prices (although sometimes not room rates) drop during January. They rise again by February and remain high until mid-April.
Low season covers the summer and early fall months, for two reasons. First, these are the warmest months in the northeast section of the US, the area from which travelers often flee to the sunny Caribbean during the chilly winter months. Second, this is hurricane season.
HURRICANES
Mention the Caribbean and weather in the same sentence, and one concern quickly arises: hurricanes. These deadly storms officially threaten from June through November, although the greatest danger is during the later months, basically August through October. (September is usually the worst month.)
Keep in mind, however, that the Caribbean is a large region. We've been in the Western Caribbean when storms were picking up force in the eastern reaches and never felt a gust of wind or saw a wave over ankle high.
To minimize the chances of a hurricane ruining or postponing your trip, plan a vacation outside the hurricane season or outside the hurricane zone. In the far southern reaches, the islands of Aruba, Bonaire, and Curaçao (also known as the ABC islands) and Trinidad and Tobago are below the hurricane zone and should be safer bets during the summer and fall months.
You'll also find that some resorts offer weather guarantees. At the Jamaica resorts operated by SuperClubs, for example, you're guaranteed sunshine every day. No sun? You'll get a credit voucher for the value of that day, good for one year on your next SuperClubs stay. And, if a hurricane hits the resort, you'll be reimbursed for the disrupted nights and also get a voucher for a future stay for the same number of disrupted nights for use during the same month the following year.
Except for the hurricane season, weather in the Caribbean is a wonderfully monotonous topic. (In Papiamento, the language of the Dutch islands, there is no word for weather. It's almost always perfect, so why waste a word?) Seas are warm enough for comfortable swimming year around.
If budget is not your prime consideration, then when's the best time to go to the Caribbean? Anytime!
Husband and wife team Paris Permenter and John Bigley have authored over 20 guidebooks and also edit the FREE Lovetripper.com, a romantic travel magazine featuring worldwide destinations.
Copyright 2000 Paris Permenter and John Bigley
Attendants Duties
by Vanessa Kasal Kunze
Not sure what the Attendants duties are, exactly? Hopefully this list of duties will help you out. Please note that this list is not all-inclusive list and some duties can be shared amongst other attendants.
MAID/MATRON OF HONOR
* Generally responsible for own gown and accessories
* Helps arrange bridal shower and acts as host
* Keeps a record of shower and wedding gifts for the bride
* Acts as official witness
* Helps calm the bride's nerves
* Rearranges train before the processional, during the ceremony, and before the recessional
* Holds bride's bouquet (and possibly gloves) during ceremony
* Takes cares of the bride's things at the ceremony and reception
* Assists the bride when changing from her wedding gown to her going-away apparel
* Attends the rehearsal
* Attend as member of the receiving line and head table
* Assist with decorating reception room
* Assits bride with bustle of her dress after the ceremony
BRIDESMAIDS
* Generally responsible for their own gowns
* Assist with bridal shower planning
* Helps put together reception favors
* Fill cups with confetti, rice, or rose petals to throw for the getaway
* Decorate the cars
* Attends the rehearsal
* Attend as members of the receiving line and head table
* Assist with decorating reception room
BEST MAN
* Responsible for tuxedo
* Pays the officiant and other vendors
* In charge of groom arriving on time
* Gives toast at ceremony and reception
* Keeps rings, license, and honeymoon tickets in a safe place
* Plans for reception exit transportation
* Attends the rehearsal
* Attend as member of the receiving line and head table
* Assist with decorating reception room
GROOMSMEN
* Assists the Best Man with any of his duties as needed
* Attends the rehearsal
* Attend as member of the receiving line and head table
* Assist with decorating reception room
USHERS
* Responsible for their own attire
* Involved in all ceremony festivities
* Greet all guests at the ceremony, ask which family they represent and seat them accordingly. Bride's family and friends sit on the left of the aisle and the groom's on the right
* Usually two of the ushers unroll the aisle runner after the bride's mother is seated
FLOWER GIRL
* Usually a young girl under the age of 7
* Precedes the bride, tossing paper petals or fresh flower petals down the aisle
RING BEARER
* Usually a young boy under the age of 7
* Walks down the aisle carrying the ring, or a substitute secured to a satin pillow.
Bedded Bliss
by The Better Sleep Council
Alexandria, VA - While sleep may not be the first thing on newlyweds minds when they think of their honeymoon night, too many couples come together in marriage only to find out they are not as comfortable in bed as they thought they would be, according to the Better Sleep Council.
"No matter how much you have in common, comfort is a very personal perception," said Andrea Herman, Director of the Better Sleep Council. "You both deserve the best night's sleep possible, but if you didn't pick out the mattress together, there's a good chance only one of you will be comfortable in bed."
When a man or woman brings a mattress into the relationship, there is a good chance that one sleeps soundly while the other sleeps less comfortably than they should. To ensure that nights spent in wedded union are blissful, couples may want to try out new mattresses by taking a "rest test" together, visiting mattress retailers, and comparing the comfort and support of new sleep sets with their old sleep set at home. A mattress that meets both partners needs for size, comfort and support will make comfortable sleep a reality for both.
The Better Sleep Council recommends the following six shopping "musts" for a mattress:
1. Support. Just as you support your partner, a quality mattress and foundation should gently support both of you at all points on your body. Your sleep set should keep your spine in the same position as good standing posture.
2. Comfort. You and your partner should always feel comfortable and at ease with each other. So when selecting a sleep set, be sure to choose one that feels the most comfortable for both of you.
3. Durability and Warranty. Similar to marriage, you expect your mattress to last a long time. Because the warranty doesn't tell you how long to keep your sleep set, be sure to reevaluate your mattress and foundation twice a year to ensure it is still providing optimum comfort and support.
4. Space. Even the happiest couples need their space from time to time, so be sure to select a mattress that gives both you and your partner enough room for easy, free movement during the night. Couples should sleep on a queen or king-size mattress.
5. Matching Sleep Sets. Just as you and your partner work well together, so too do matching mattresses and foundations. Matching sleep sets are designed to work together while mismatched sets can impede comfort and reduce the useful life of your mattress.
6. Value. Shopping for the best value, not the lowest price, is a healthy investment in your quality of life. So be sure to buy only quality products with all new materials.
25 Wedding Favor Ideas
by Vanessa Kasal Kunze
Need wedding favor ideas - check out our list of 25 Wedding Favor Ideas! Many of these ideas are basic; you can then personalize them, such as wrapping the favor in tulle, placing it in glassine bags, or whatever else you can think of.
* Candles in terra cotta pots
* Splits of wine/champagne/sparkling cider
* Personalized Chocolate Bars
* Fortune Cookies
* Personalized Wedding Phone Cards
* Bubbles
* Hershey Kiss Rosebud Roses
* Jordan Almonds
* M&M in wedding colors
* Votive Candles
* Personalized Pens
* Charity Donation
* Handcrafted Soap
* Heart Shaped (or other shaped) Cookie Cutter
* Printed Scrolls
* Frame (can also double as Placecard)
* Tree Seedlings
* Flower Seed Packets/Sachets
* Bookmarks
* Taper Candles
* Magnets
* Potpourri Sachet
* Christmas/Holiday Ornaments
* Hugs and Kisses Spoons
* Keychains
Still looking for favor ideas? Check out our Favors Gallery!
The Unity Candle Ceremony
by Vanessa Kasal Kunze
The Unity Candle Ceremony has become a very popular and symbolic aspect of weddings within the last 10 years. The lighting of the Unity Candle symbolizes the new union of a husband and wife, two individuals who are becoming one through marriage.
A unity candle is actually a set of candles: a large single candle in the center, with two slim taper candles on either side. The candles are placed in holders, either a special unity candleholder or individual bases. The unity candle is often placed off to the side of the area where the wedding ceremony will be performed. Some time during the ceremony, the couple will each take a lighted taper, and together will light the big center candle, symbolizing their unity and commitment to each other.
There is no “standard” way to perform the Unity Candle ceremony, nor is there a specific place where it will occur within the ceremony. It is very common to have the Unity Candle ceremony after the exchange of rings and before the pronouncement of husband and wife. But one very nice thing about this ceremony is that it can be customized and the individual details are completely up to you.
Here are some ideas to help you with the planning of your Unity Candle Ceremony:
* Prior to the ceremony: The unity candle area is set up. It is often a good idea to light the wicks ahead of time then blow them out. A pre-burned wick is easier to light (many couples have been in the middle of their ceremony and couldn’t get the wick to light!)
* Lighting the tapers: There are many different variations on lighting the side tapers.
o Some people have them already burning before the ceremony starts, to symbolize the bride and the groom as individuals.
o You can opt to have the mother of the bride and groom each light one candle with special music playing while this is going on. The mother of the groom is escorted in by either an usher or a male member of the brides family, where she will then light a taper then is ushered to her seat. The mother of the bride is escorted in by the groom himself, an usher or a male member of the grooms family, where she will light the other taper, then gets escorted to her seat. At this time the bridesmaids music begins and the ceremony starts.
o The groom will light a taper before the ceremony, and after the bride is escorted in, she will light her taper.
o If the couple are bringing children into the marriage, you can opt to have the children light the tapers.
* Lighting the center candle: The couple will move to the area where the Unity Candle is displayed. Each will take a taper, and together they will light the large center candle. Some people choose to blow out their tapers, to symbolize their commitment to each other and as a show of their unity. Other couples leave their tapers lit, to symbolize that they are still individuals even though they have been united in marriage. No matter if you plan to keep your tapers lit or not, the choice is totally up to you.
Some couples choose to have a special song played while they are lighting the unity candle. Any song you wish can be used; popular Unity Candle songs include “Here and Now” by Luther Vandross, “Ava Maria”, “ Grow Old With Me” by John Lennon or Mary Chapin Carpenter, and “To Make You Feel My Love” by Garth Brooks. You can also choose to have a special poem read or you can choose to have a moment of silence.
If you are having an outdoor ceremony, you may want to consider not only pre-lighting the wicks of the candles, but also putting them inside glass hurricane lamps to protect them from the wind. There is nothing more frustrating than being outside and the wind prevents you from lighting your candles! You can find hurricane lamps in a variety of sizes and shapes at most craft, department or discount stores.
The Unity Candle Ceremony is non-denominational, which means it has no religious significance. This makes it a popular choice for both religious and non-religious ceremonies alike. One thing to keep in mind; many houses of worship may not allow this ceremony, so if you have your heart set on it, you may need to check with the appropriate people to see if this is allowed.
Packing for Your Destination Wedding
by Paris Permenter and John Bigley
Are you planning a destination wedding? Congratulations! Before you head off to your dream wedding and honeymoon, don't forget the packing for the wedding itself. Much will depend on where you're having your wedding and your own personal style.
If you're getting married in a formal wedding dress, be sure to carry it with you - don't trust your dress to checked luggage. Most airplanes have coat closets and will allow travelers to hang garment bags. Check with your airline.
Grooms should also carry the clothing needed for the ceremony. If you're getting married in the Caribbean, you won't find many tuxedo rental shops in the islands. It is easiest to bring clothes with you. We recently saw a panicked groom in the Bahamas wearing a tuxedo shirt, coat, cummerbund -and a pair of jeans. The stressed-out groom was racing for the lobby door to meet a clothier who had located a pair of tuxedo pants after the groom's were lost in his luggage. Don't let this happen to you!
Also, carry all original documents--including birth certificates and divorce papers, if applicable--in your hand luggage. Don't pack these in checked luggage!
Many resorts have on-site beauty salons, so you can make sure your hair is perfect for your wedding day. (If you plan to do your own hair, be sure to check first on the electrical current and plugs at your destination. You may need to bring converters for hot rollers and other appliances.) Many resorts also have on-site spas which can pamper the two of you with a massage to work out the kinks from your flight.
For the wedding, you'll want to pack some of these items, depending on your plans:
* wedding dress
* special hosiery or undergarments
* shoes (if you're planning a tropical wedding, remember that high temperatures and humidity, coupled with a long flight, can make feet puffy)
* guest book
* wedding rings
* groom's tux or suit
* groom's shoes
* address book
* thank you cards if you'd like to write them on the way home
* special decorations, wedding music
Monday, May 21, 2007
Wedding Cake Designs & Wedding Cake Ideas
How to choose one among innumerous wedding cake designs and ideas that are out there and also to keep wedding cake price at reasonable level?
Your wedding cake design should reflect your personal style and taste and should, of course, go well with the decor and menu of your reception.
Choose one among many different bridal cake designs, only after you have selected your dress, the place for the reception, the reception decor and colors, and anything else that may affect your choice of your wedding cake idea.
You should try to select one of the wedding cake designs that will fit the overall theme and colors of your wedding and reception.
You could choose the cake first and make everything else match that, but that approach will probably be much harder. And after you slice and serve the cake, everything that was chosen to match it is still there but the cake is history. :-)
The bridal cake is the center attraction as guests arrive at the reception. Many will stand and admire the cake before taking their seats. Those who don’t will be stealing glances at it as they sit with friends and wait for the wedding party to enter.
Brides and grooms fool only themselves if they think that people care about the cake’s flavor and will not notice the wedding cake design and decoration.
Have no doubt that a unique bridal cake idea is remembered by many guests and can set your wedding ceremony apart from others. Many wedding pictures will feature the cake as well as the wedding party.
Aside from the bride’s glowing face and her beautiful dress, nothing says wedding like bridal cake design!
Unique wedding cake ideas may come form looking at pictures of other wonderful wedding cake designs. That way you will find a cake that will enhance your reception.
There are lots of approaches to take with wedding cakes, from traditional white or cream icings in traditional designs to totally non-traditional works of colorful artistry. Today, just about anything goes!
The wedding cake ideas today are so different than in the past. Designs are evolving to meet the needs of today’s couples. More and more we see couples choosing cupcake trees which is one of most original wedding cake ideas.
But some couples still prefer traditional fruit or cheesecakes for wedding cakes.
In any case, as you share your cake with friends and loved ones, the wedding cake tradition continues to symbolize the sweetness of life, love, fertility, and prosperity.
Here are some questions to ask yourself when considering your wedding cake designs or ideas:
How big is your budget, and how much of that should be spent on the wedding cake design?
Will the cake be the only dessert or will it be one of many choices? How big a cake do you need? Not every guest will want a piece if you have other desserts or a meal.
Will wedding cake design and flavor complement your decorations and the rest of your menu? Today’s pastry chefs at cakery can offer nearly limitless wedding cake ideas and choices of construction, icings, decorations, and flavors.
How many tiers should the cake have and what colors should they be?
Should you have a unique wedding cake topper? Do you and your groom share a passion for motorcycles, cars, fishing, or something else that can be reflected in a miniature bride and groom atop your cake?
If you are looking for very special wedding cake toppers, look no more, they are right here
Should your cake be a single flavor or should each layer have a different flavor? No flavor or filling is considered off limits for a modern wedding. You can dazzle taste buds with mousse-filled cakes, cheesecakes, fruitcakes, or pound cakes. Or you may choose a standard chocolate, vanilla, orange mud, or sponge cake.
Should you simply serve the cake as dessert, or should you offer to put the guests’ slices into small boxes or bags for them to take home?
Try to make your preliminary decisions on these and other questions you might think of before you visit any bakeries, but stay open to their expert suggestions.
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How much does catering a wedding cost?
Wedding caterers usually charge for catering on a per head basis. So the cost of your wedding catering will depend on the number of guests that you expect to have at your wedding. Some other factors that can influence the cost of catering are:
Type of food: If you have regular American fare at your wedding then it will cost you a whole lot less than if you go in for any exotic or international cuisine such as French, Mediterranean, Thai or perhaps even Indian. The number of dishes that you wish to have will also affect the catering costs. If the caterer is in charge of the wine and the wedding cake, then your catering cost will increase as opposed to if you were taking care of these items on your own.
Type of catering service: If you want to have a sit down dinner where your guests are served by waiters then it is likely to cost you more than having a buffet style of catering. Even in a buffet if you need people to serve the guests instead of the guests serving themselves, then your catering costs are likely to increase. Whether the hors d’oeuvres are to be circulated or kept stationary for guests to help themselves will also affect your catering costs.
Set up and Clean up: Most caterers have the set up and the clean up included in the per head costs. But if these are to be charged extra, then your catering costs are bound to increase. Also if the caterer is in charge of supplying the required linen, silverware, china, glassware, and serving dishes, then this should be included in your basic catering cost and should not cost you any extra money.
Children: Most catering services have special rates for children, which helps to reduce the catering cost. Ask your caterer about any such discounts and reduced rates for children. Inquire about any overtime costs, gratuities or taxes that may all have an impact on the final cost of your wedding catering.
What are the steps to planning a wedding?
By Ken Austin
Wedding planning is a difficult task for everyone. Unless you have done it before, you don't know all the answers. But, you can find them! By far the most important thing to remember about wedding planning is that it should be enjoyable. There is no need to work yourself up over the small details of the day.
Instead, spend your time planning a wedding that is perfect with your loved one by your side. You will find invaluable resources to guide you along the way. Wedding plans are actually one of the first major decisions couples have to make within their lives together. So, breathe a little and smile a lot! You did it! You are engaged! It's time to start your wedding planning. But, where do you start? Who do you talk to? Where do you go to find everything? There are many questions floating through your mind. You're worried about planning every detail. You're thinking about so much all at once. The first thing you need to do is to breathe! Begin by picking your date. Of course, everything else will be centered on this fact. Once you know when it will be, you can start planning the wedding of your dreams. To do this, you will have to know your budget though. Sure you can dream big and plan big things for your wedding, but unless you can afford to pay for it, it's senseless to do this. Instead, wedding planning should be centered on a budget that you create for yourself. Some people choose to use credit as a means for having the big wedding of their dreams. For others, simplicity is much more important. Talk about this and make sure that you and your fiancé are on the same page. Then you come to all the other questions. The who, what, where, and how's of the wedding plans. Each person, though, is going to have their own ideas and thoughts. It is important to find a way to compromise so that you can both enjoy the experience of planning a wedding. Talk about your family's traditions, your wishes, and your ideas. Talk about the people who you want to have in your wedding party. Think about the cake, the favors, and the napkins. You can decide if you want to write your own vows. Where will the wedding take place? Will you invite your entire family or will it be a small simple ceremony with a larger reception? Oh, the options are just endless! When it comes to the details, you have many options. First, you can organize all of your thoughts and ideas in a journal. Or, you can invest in a wedding planner, again something that will need to be budgeted for if you use it. Or, you can find and use any of the websites online as a guide to wedding planning. You have many resources at your fingertips online. You can organize each area of your wedding plans simply, easily. Then, you can take a step back and think about things, make changes as necessary, and be content with the end result. By organizing here, you will make the wedding plans much smoother, much easier to handle.
Down The Aisle In Style
by Kathryn Lemmon, Wedding Zone Staff Writer
When planning your nuptials, few things are more exciting than shopping for your wedding gown. But at the same time, the process can be overwhelming. So many options, opinions, and bridal shops! Somewhere the perfect gown awaits. How can you go down the aisle in style? Here's a few suggestions.
Everything old is new again...perhaps there's an antique gown, worn by your grandmother, mother, or favorite aunt that can be restored. Fortunately, there are new technologies that can remove discoloration from these precious family heirlooms and return them to their original color.
Whether you know what you want or are still deciding, you'll need the help of a reputable, professional salesperson. Unlike your close friends or relatives, the salesperson is objective. She is seeing you for the first time and has no preconceived ideas about what you might like or dislike. Her only purpose is to assist in finding a dress you love, a dress in which you look your absolute best. A professional will help you find a gown that's flattering to your body shape and size. Keep in mind, objectivity is not criticism. Even the most gorgeous-looking models routinely have professional help.
Most experts say begin shopping for your gown at least five months prior to the wedding date. Be sure to shop at several different stores and spread the shopping over several weeks, or even months. If you attempt to find the perfect dress in just one day, you'll exhaust yourself and may regret your choice later.
Wear make-up and bring shoes of a heel height similar to what you plan to wear at the wedding. If possible, style your hair as you plan to wear it that day. Also, bring appropriate undergarments such as a strapless bra, if you plan on an off-the-shoulder style or strapless dress.
Invite one person along who knows your tastes and can give a reliable, HONEST second opinion, an opinion you trust. Having more than one person along can mean even more opinions and that can be confusing.
Accent attractive areas by selecting gowns with detailing in those areas to draw the eye. In order to minimize large areas, choose styles with virtually no details in the area you want to minimize, i.e., large bust, no ruffles on the front, for example. To slenderize, you'll want to lengthen vertical lines by choosing styles with pressed pleats, vertical tucks, button front closing, v-necklines and princess seams. The more seams, darts, pleats or gathers in the figure area, the more opportunities to correct the fit without extensive and expensive alterations to the dress.
As you get closer to the style you prefer, start trying them on. When you're wearing it, do you still like the general style? While some gowns look sensational on the hanger, they're not so terrific on your body. Walk around the bridal shop with your slip and petticoats on to make sure they stay in place when you move around. You don't want your slip showing in the photos!
It happens all too often; the dress you love is considerably over your budget. You must ask yourself: do you really want to give up something in exchange for the gown, such as your honeymoon trip to Hawaii or the reception of your dreams? There's another option, ask for a very similar but less costly dress.
Wedding Day Hair
by Kathryn Lemmon, Wedding Zone Staff Writer
"How will I wear my hair?" Every bride faces that predicament. Your wedding day hairstyle is a significant aspect of the total bridal look, worth some thought. If you have a bad hair day, the photos to prove it will be around for years to come. On the plus side, it's a great opportunity to do something really special with your hair.
The Test Run
Do a "test run" with hair and make-up, just the way you plan to wear it on your wedding day. Have someone take several pictures from different angles and with different facial expressions. Then, look closely at the pictures. Do you like what you see? Is there too much make-up or not enough? How do you feel about the hair style--too much height or not enough?
If something doesn't seem right, start again and do another test run until everything comes together. It's important to actually take photos of yourself because it can give you a different perspective rather than just looking in the mirror.
During the "test run," walk around with the hairstyle you plan to wear to determine its comfort level. A good rule is: the simpler, the better, since pins can hurt, and intricate styles are often delicate and apt to fall. The photos, wedding and reception could last as long as ten hours, will the hairstyle stand the test of time?
So Many Styles
Consider the time of day and type of wedding when choosing a style. Loose styles are appropriate for informal or daytime weddings, while up-do's portray a formal, evening look. Strive for balance. The hairstyle and headpiece needs to look balanced to the dress and body type. Like a puzzle, all the pieces fit together to make a lovely picture.
Remember some hairstyles can add inches to your height, and shorter brides may want to use this to their advantage.
One option is to let the texture of the hair determine the style. Thicker and coarser hair stays up the best, while slicker or finer hair is better with the front up and the back down.
Will you be wearing a veil? If so, your hair style and your veil must work well together. It might be a good idea to get your veil first, or at least have some idea of the type veil you want.
Tiara headpieces continue to be popular. They look their most elegant atop a romantic style updo. That way, you can choose to wear a veil for the ceremony, but remove it for the reception if you wish, and show off the artwork of your updo!
The Salon
Schedule your wedding day hair appointment at least eight weeks ahead. But, don't expect to get your regular stylist to do your wedding hair if you desire an intricate updo. This is a specialty service and best left for the resident expert, so request the right person for the job.
Stylists and makeup artists do their best work in their own environments with their own tools, so have your wedding party meet at the salon a couple of hours before they need to be at the ceremony for pictures. This increases efficiency, and usually costs less!
If you do arrange for them to work in your home, provide adequate space with good lighting.
General Wedding Hair Suggestions
It's best not to go overboard with hair spray. "Helmet head" is not an appealing look for any woman.
If your stylist tells you to show up with dirty hair for your wedding day, don't be too surprised. Some styles work best when the hair isn't too clean, depending on your hair type. Just washed hair can be fly-away and less manageable.
Remember to wear a button down shirt when you're getting your make-up and hair done. Otherwise it's either mess up your finished look or cut off your shirt! When you're ready, step into your gown, rather than pulling it over your head.
To ensure your hair looks healthy on your wedding day, take good care of it in the months prior. There are plenty of affordable deep-conditioning treatments available for at home use. But don't use one the day of your wedding or your hair could end up looking flat and greasy. The same holds true with chemical treatments. This is not the time for surprises!
One of the newer trends is ornamenting your hairstyle. Check the bridal section of your local craft store for creative options. There are also many decorative hair sticks, barrettes and bobby pins to add to your hairstyle.
Changing Your Name After Marriage
by Arielle Mills, Ultimate Name Change Kit
Are you planning on changing your name once you finally tie the knot? If you decide to do so, there are so many options. Do you hyphenate, keep your maiden name as your middle name, combine both names, or be traditional? Well whichever option you choose, the name change process can seem overwhelming. There are numerous forms to gather from many government agencies. You'll need a social security form, US passport form, driver's license form, voter registration form, IRS forms, forms to send to your employer, insurance company, utilities companies, and all organizations of which you are a member. Many brides put off the process and wait for months or even years to change their name. The process is really not that horrible. Once you gather your forms & complete them, most can be sent in through the mail. The only office you'll need to visit in person is the motor vehicle department.
If you plan on traveling overseas on your honeymoon, the name on your airline ticket must match the name on your passport. Therefore, wait until you return to change your name and book your tickets in your maiden name.
The bride taking the groom's name is not the only way to go. A groom can also legally change his last name to the bride's. This is not as popular, but it does happen. A groom may have a long last name or a name he isn't fond of and decide he wants the bride's name.
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